Welcome! Meet:

Ben + Grant

Broadway Performer/Host/ Cruise Director / Audio Book Narrator

New York

Caucasian

Spiritual

All About Ben & Grant

Hi! We’re Ben and Grant! Thanks for taking the time to get to know us a bit. We are so very hopeful and excited to build our family through adoption. We have a warm, nurturing and fun loving home to share in NYC, just seconds away from Central Park! We would love to connect, hear your story and share in this profound and heartfelt journey. We admire your strength and love in considering making an adoption plan. We’re here for you with open minds and hearts anytime. We really are those guys 🥰

Why Adoption?

Ben has wanted to be a parent for as long as he can remember and Grant is dad to 5 year old Evie Dove, whom Ben has become a joyous step dad to. (She is soooo excited to be a big sister!)  We are committed to raising a child/children with unconditional love to be the most authentic, confident and kind people they can be. Being dads is the most wonderful and fulfilling part of our lives. We love our adventurous  life and can’t wait to share that love with a new addition to our family.

Family & Home

We both have wonderful, loving families, who are a beacon of support and guidance. Ben grew up in the beautiful mountains of Utah. He is the second youngest of five kids. His childhood home was always bustling with activity and music. His mom Carolyn (a career nurse), is his best friend and a stunning force of beauty and wisdom with a wickedly delightful sense of humor. She lives with her husband, 'step-dad' Carl, in Big Canoe, Georgia. Trips to their home amongst the trees and lakes is a total reset for our NYC lives. We can't get enough of the calm surroundings and wilderness available for hikes or just getting a little lost on cool, sunny days. Ben's brothers, Ted and Chris, still happily live in Utah with their big beautiful families (4 and 6 amazing kids between them, ranging from 8 years old to 27). They all agree that Ben is their favorite uncle/human jungle gym and clown. They LOVE their new Uncle, Grant, who has wowed them with his fearless enthusiasm for their favorite activities, even when he has no experience, lol. Big sister, Michelle is an orthopedic surgeon in Salt Lake City, a world traveler (team Dr. for the US Ski team. WOW!)) and horse enthusiast. She has been the catlayst for many great adventures and once in a lifetime moments for all of us. Rounding out the tribe is Ben's Irish twin (11 months apart!) Jenny, a fitness guru who lives in Baltimore with engineer husband, Brad and her 2 adorable daughters. So many uncles/aunts/cousins ready to love, adore and SPOIL (their words, not ours) our new additions to this family unit. Our Salt Lake City family is big, boisterous and fully dedicated to each other and us. We love them to the moon and back along with the many dogs, a few horses and the most beautiful mountains to ski and hike or simply stare at and daydream


Grant gew up on the beaches of Newcastle, Australia - can you spot him in the photo? ;) and has one older sister Stacy. With only a year between them they grew up super close. Mum and Dad - Julie and Larry, prioritzed family and Grant grew up very close with his maternal grandparents seeing them weekly for extended family Sunday lunches which became the cornerstone of his childhood. Growing up in Australia meant playing outdoors until late into summer evenings - and winter ones too for that matter. Riding bikes around the streets with neighborhood kids, days at the beach (did we mention Australia?!), roller skating, karate, read-a-thons, drama club, local touch football competitions run by Dad and backyard cricket, where hitting the ball over the fence was an indisputable 6 and out! Julie was a stay-at-home mum and Larry worked in IT which took him around the world. Grant more often than not joined him on some of these working adventures which might just be where his travel bug came from. To this day Grant's folks still devote all of themselves to those they love. Stacy has three amazing kids; Madalyn, 22, Aidan 17, and Isabelle 16  - Madalyn is getting married this year and her fiance Jack is the greatest, coolest guy around! Their wedding will be a huge family highlight! There have been a lot of additions to Grant's extended family over the last few years with babies and marriages. There is always great excitement during holidays and special occasions. Side note from Ben: did you know Christmas is in the summer Down Under?! Wild! ​

We live in a fantastic 4 bedroom apartment on Central Park West on NYC’s Upper West Side. Central Park is right out of our front door..not a bad ‘backyard’ to have 😃 The Upper West Side is generally regarded as NYC’s family neighborhood. It’s one of the safest and cleanest areas of the city.  We love the idea of raising children here. There are so many opportunities and activities for kids and families. Our neighborhood is chalk full of wonderful restaurants, schools, shops and culture. We love our diverse community and have made great connections with our neighbors and have close friends all over the city, not to mention the country and the world.

How others describe me

Meet Grant​ ( by Ben)

Grant is the kind of person who shows up for you and is never afraid to get his hands dirty. He is focussed and an incredible multi-tasker who never forgets that there's humour to be found in any situation. Grant is Australian - yes I get to hear that accent every day *swoon*. He has two degrees and trained at the prestigious Victorian College of the Arts which catapulted him into a successful acting career on stage and in screen. In recent years he has become a prolific, in demand audiobook narrator with over 200 titles to his name. When he's not eyes-deep in a book in our home studio, he is a passionate community leader and sustainability advocate. He has served on the board of NYC Pride, as Director of PrideFest, and as a Project Manager with the Green Event Ninjas. Grant moved to NYC over 6 years ago and is in love with life in the Big Apple. After all that's where he met me ;). He is close to his family back in Sydney, Australia and we love traveling Down Under every year. Grant is a romantic and a true renaissance man. But for all his accomplishments and titles, his proudest is being Dad to his incredible five year old daughter Evie-Dove - you'll meet her in a minute. I am constantly inspired and in awe of watching Grant be a dad. In fact after our first date I told him that one of the sexiest things about him is that he is a dad. He is spectacular. Becoming a parent with him on this journey is more than I could've ever hoped for.

​"Grant's heart is huge and bursting at the seams. You can't escape his orbit of love, kindness and support - nor would you want to" - Ben

About Ben (by Grant)

 Ben is a born showman, mentor and nonstop fun! He performed on Broadway for twelve years (original cast of Wicked!!) and is revered within this community. Ben now shares his love of theatre with students all over the country as a teacher and choreographer. He also travels the world as the Cruise Director and Host of Atlantis Events, the world's largest gay events company. He has a podcast, a long running cabaret series in NYC and is often seen hosting on PBS.  Ben embraces life and enjoys every minute of the ride. Kindness, honesty and compassion are some of Ben's core values. There is a reason his family and friends look up to him like they do. He grew up in a large and loving family in Utah, just outside of Salt Lake City. Moving to NYC at 18 to pursue his dream - a very good move ;). We love heading out west for the holidays to hang with all the dogs, horses - and humans. Look out if a board game or piano is nearby as he will lead the charge for an indisputable good time! I've never seen someone be so loved and make a room smile just by entering. ​​Since the very beginning of our relationship Ben has talked about his desire to be a Dad and there is a spark inside him that is ignited around kids. I remember the day he met Evie-Dove. I had already fallen head over heels for him (of course - look at him!). She fell for him too, climbing onto his back for the first of many horsey rides to follow. It was then I knew that we'd be in this together, forever.

"Ben is larger than life. His boundless energy and capacity for love is electric. His passion for life makes you feel like you're in the warmest hug whenever he is near. I'm the luckiest guy." - Grant

how we met

How We Met

After matching on both Hinge AND Tinder we decided it was in the 21st Century stars for us to meet. So we did. A date at a cafe on the Upper West Side where we both had 'an out' lasted into the late evening. We definitely felt the electricity sharing stories, histories, our favorite pop divas and a hint of a future. We live together in our home on the Upper West Side in NYC, steps away from Central Park and a little longer stroll to our favorite donut shop (we are a little obsessed!). We both have made careers in the Arts and so you'll find us at the theatre, cinema, or jumping around our living room playing some kind of game! ​We are deeply in love and it is not lost on us how lucky we are to have found each other. We feel to find someone who has the same goal of building a strong and loving family unit is out-of-this-world lucky. We are excited to raise a family under the roof of our warm, nurturing and loving home. Kids, a puppy and boundless love.

Advice to Future Child

First thing to always know and remember is that you are loved beyond measure! Not only by your dads but also a mother who loves you so much that she wanted to give you the best life possible. 

Your dads will be here for you always. We will always have open hearts and minds to hear you out, no matter what situations life may present. We want you to be happy. We want you to be yourself. We are honored and so lucky to be YOUR parents and will be on your side no matter what. We were brought together for a beautiful reason and can’t wait to share the adventure of life together.  We love you.

Perspectives on Open Adoption

We are firm believers in open adoption. It’s important for us that our child knows where they came from and that they are part of not only our legacy, but of a whole other lifeline of love. We are committed to working with the special lady we are matched with to determine the healthiest/ best game plan and scenario for everyone involved.

Favorites

Ben
  • Favorite Movie: The Great Muppet Caper, Avengers Endgame
  • Favorite Holiday/Tradition: I am a big Christmas lover!
  • Hobbies/Interests: trivia, bowling, music, travel, theater
  • Dream Vacation: really want to take my family on an African safari
  • If I Could Choose a Superpower: Telekinesis- the power to move things with my mind. Would make things so easy ;)
Grant
  • Favorite Movie: Aliens, Psycho, Bridesmaids
  • Favorite Holiday/Tradition: Spending Evie Dove’s birthday with her and our family in Australia!
  • Hobbies/Interests: running, yoga, vegan baking, traveling
  • Dream Vacation: I love the beach, all beaches
  • If I Could Choose a Superpower: Flying!

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