Hospitality / Librarian
Ohio
Caucasian
Hello, we are Elizabeth and David. We want to thank you for looking at our information. Please know we think you are courageous and kind in considering adoption. We can’t know everything you’re going through, but we know your consideration comes from a place of love.
Above all else, please know, our child will be loved unconditionally. Adoption has and will always be part of our lives. David was adopted as an infant. No situation is perfect, but we will know how to navigate the emotions and expectations our child will have about adoption because we have lived some of it ourselves.
We’re each other's best friend and have a mutual respect for each other. At the end of the day we want to get home and cook a meal together and talk about our day. We know no matter what life offers, we know looking for the silly will get you through.
Together we enjoy watching movies, both popular and obscure, and both new and old. One of our favorite things to do is plan what we’re cooking. Elizabeth is very skilled at baking and making homemade pierogis. Nobody can beat David’s cooking skills, everything from roast chicken, to fish, and salads. We like going on road trips. Once we went through the American South, exploring regional BBQ, and we’re always on the lookout for authentic Mexican restaurants. Our nieces and nephew visit with us frequently, we’re always planning outings with them, like canoeing or rollerskating. We love spending time with them!
Elizabeth is a university librarian. She enjoys connecting students and faculty to history and research. Elizabeth has a great passion for fine and performing arts. Music, theater, reading, museums, art classes will be an important part of her child’s life. Elizabeth’s hobbies include listening to film podcasts, embroidery, and repurposing vintage furniture. International travel is part of her job and her child will get to experience this privilege. One of her nieces particularly loves to bake and do crafts with Elizabeth. Elizabeth connects with kids in these one on one interactions, having conversations or reading stories with them.
David is a manager in the hospitality industry and has been both a business partner and a professional chef. This line of work permits flexibility in childcare. He is proud that his child will not be in daycare because he can’t wait to be the parent that fixes meals and drives them to their activities. When his child is older he looks forward to being a coach or supporting whatever activities his child has interest in. David’s hobbies include car mechanics, bonsai plants, and being with Elizabeth.
David has big-kid energy, children and animals adore him and create deep lasting bonds. His nephew (as a child) called him “Uncle Davi,” his west coast nieces call him “Uncle Dragon,” and his nieces in Ohio call him “Smuncle.” At family cook outs he’s out with the kids leading a water balloon fight, in the pool, or playing tag.
We have always known we have wanted to be parents, but through many years of struggling to conceive we understand it may not happen for us biologically. After years of heartbreak due to failed IVF and fertility treatments we came to the realization that perhaps the most optimal way to build our family is through adoption. We’re done with feeling like science experiments and being on that emotional roller coaster, instead adoption is a happiness we look forward to. We know all you need is love to be family.
Our Home & Pets
We own a historic brick Tudor style home in an inner-ring suburb that is close to both a city center with museums, schools, and businesses, and equally close to more rural areas with farms, parks and places where we go hiking or picnicking.Our home has spacious common areas, including our kitchen, dining room, and living room. We often host family dinners like holidays and birthdays. Our home has three bedrooms and two bathrooms, so there is plenty of room to grow.
We currently have two cats Esmo and Luptia. They are very accustomed to children of all ages, thanks to our nephew and nieces! We used to have a dog named Puma, he passed away several years ago. We’d love our child to grow up having a dog, so we look forward to that. Both of us love animals and grew up around families that had chickens, horses, and rabbits.We will raise our child with love and respect for nature and animals.
Our Family
We have a small but very close-knit family unit. Elizabeth has two siblings that she is very close with. Elizabeth’s sister and brother-in-law live very close. They have three children ranging in ages. Most family holidays and frequent gatherings take place at Elizabeth’s sister’s house or at Elizabeth and David’s house. Elizabeth’s father is an adoring Grandpa to his grandkids and can’t wait to meet a new grandchild.
Elizabeth’s brother and partner live in Washington DC. Every summer Elizabeth and her sister take all of the kids to visit them at their beachhouse on the Atlantic coast.
David’s sister lives in Oregon. David and Elizabeth see her and her daughters a few times a year. Also an adoptee, she has been very supportive of David and Elizabeth becoming parents through adoption.
We are the love of each other's life and each other's best friend. We are different people, one is an extrovert, the other an introvert, but we think that compliments our relationship and gives us a great partnership. We each take care of each other in different ways.
We met and casually started dating in our 20s. We worked together in a trendy and busy restaurant, working in close quarters in intense situations creates a bond between people. We discovered we had a shared sense of humor and both like talking about movies. Eventually, we moved in together. Though we worked a lot of hours then, our “home time” was sacred. It still is to this day. As time went on, we pursued more stable careers, purchased a home, and got married. We love each other very much, but know that we want to make our family complete with a baby.
More than anything we want to share our lives with our child. We’re so excited to experience every stage and age with our child and watch them grow into the fantastic person we know they’ll be. We want our child to know they are deeply loved and cared for and that it is our responsibility to provide them with love and stability. We also consider it our duty to instill them with a sense of wonder, respect, and curiosity about the greater world.
Part of the journey of life will be discovering our child’s motivations. We can’t make them like or dislike something or be something they are not; all we can do is prepare them for the journey of life, instilling the values of empathy and understanding.
Be kind, think critically, and look for the funny in life, because sometimes, that’s all you can do.
We’re very open to it. This is a journey for the child, the birth parent/parents, and us. More than anything we want to do what is best for the child, being secretive is ridiculous and harmful to all involved. We know and understand this because David was an adoptee as an infant, so adoption would be normalized in our house. We know maintaining an open dialogue with the child about this and being open to the birth parent(s) desire for updates would be a positive.