Manager - Facilities / Safety & Equipment Coordinator
Minnesota
Caucasian
Spiritual / None
We’re Hannah and Erik—a couple who find joy in everyday moments, laughter in the little things, and meaning in building a life together rooted in love, curiosity, and connection. Since we started dating in 2018 and got married in 2021, we’ve shared adventures across the country—from exploring the Rockies and kayaking in Alaska to deep-sea fishing in San Diego and road-tripping to visit family and friends.
At home in northern Minnesota, we live on five wooded acres with our four beloved rescue pets—two dogs (Bonnie & Bernie) and two cats (Clyde & Cleo). Our days are filled with simple pleasures: cooking new recipes, working in the garden, reading good books, cheering on our favorite sports teams, and gathering with the people we love. We cherish Friday night dinners with family, trivia nights with friends, and spontaneous backyard hangs whenever the weather allows.
Our relationship is grounded in deep respect, steady support, and a shared sense of humor. We lift each other up, communicate honestly, and find joy in both quiet evenings and new experiences. Adoption holds a special place in our hearts through family connections and personal conversations we’ve had since early in our relationship. We’re excited to grow our family through adoption and to build a life where a child is surrounded by love, belonging, and endless encouragement to become exactly who they are.
We can’t wait to share our hearts, our home, and our lives with a child—and to walk this journey with openness, respect, and care for everyone involved.
Even before we tried to grow our family biologically, we talked through all of the possible paths to parenthood. After Hannah was diagnosed with PCOS and we learned the challenges with fertility that go with that diagnosis, we thoughtfully explored our options. IVF didn’t feel like the right fit for us, but adoption did.
Adoption has always been close to our hearts. Erik’s biological mom and Hannah’s grandmother were both adopted, and we also have extended families who’ve grown their families through adoption, as well as other family members who were adopted themselves. We've seen firsthand how adoption can be rooted in love, connection, and belonging.
We know adoption includes complexity and begins with loss, and we approach that truth with deep empathy and care. Our greatest hope is to offer a child a home full of warmth, stability, joy, and unconditional love—and to honor the story and people who bring us together.
We live in a small town in northern Minnesota, just outside of Duluth. Our home sits on five acres at the end of a quiet, dead-end road, surrounded by a peaceful mix of woods and wetlands. The neighborhood is made up of a blend of families—some with young children, others retired—and there’s a strong sense of calm, connection, and care. It’s the kind of place where neighbors wave as they pass, kids ride bikes on summer evenings, and nature is part of everyday life.
Our home is cozy, light-filled, and welcoming. The large backyard is a space we enjoy year-round. In the fall and winter, we sled with our nieces down the hill, watch snow fall from the warmth of our living room, and spot deer, rabbits, foxes, and birds at the feeders. In the spring and summer, the yard comes alive—we garden, grill on the deck, play fetch with the dogs, and enjoy dinner outdoors as the sun sets. We’re excited to grow our vegetable garden as a family and share the joy of planting, harvesting, and discovering new things together.
We love celebrating holidays and special moments—big and small—with our community of family and friends. Some of our favorite traditions include Friday night dinners at Hannah’s sister’s house in the summer, complete with lawn games and catching the ice cream truck. Erik’s stepmom and extended family also live nearby and are a regular part of our lives; we often celebrate the 4th of July together and major winter holidays. We’re also grateful for our close-knit circle of friends and enjoy hosting game nights, playing bar trivia, attending local events, and sharing meals. Whether it’s hiding Easter eggs in the yard, carving pumpkins in the fall, or ringing in the New Year with a game marathon, we believe in making space for laughter, connection, and joy.
We’re also involved in our local community in ways that reflect our values. Hannah volunteers with Cloquet Area Indivisible, helping support civic engagement and community events, and also plays in a local golf league during the warmer months. These connections keep us grounded in what matters—building relationships, contributing to positive change, and being part of something bigger than ourselves.
As future parents, we’re excited to build a home full of warmth, curiosity, and shared experiences. We can’t wait for bedtime stories and classic kids’ books, weekly games and movie nights, and visits to zoos, museums, and aquariums. We look forward to outdoor adventures—hiking, fishing, hunting, birding, and camping with Erik’s family—and traveling together to explore new places and cultures. Holiday baking, decorating cookies, and celebrating “Family Day” will be traditions we cherish, along with the little everyday joys like crafts, nature walks, and quiet moments together. We also hope to volunteer as a family and honor our child’s cultural heritage through books, food, community events, and connection. More than anything, we want to raise a child in a space where they feel safe, celebrated, and deeply loved.
Hannah about Erik:
Erik is one of the most loyal, steady, and kind people I’ve ever known. He’s calm under pressure, quick with a joke, and always puts others at ease. He’s incredibly dependable—whether it’s managing a big project at work or helping a friend move, you can always count on him. I admire how grounded and thoughtful he is, and how deeply he cares for the people in his life. He’s also really fun—he’s the guy who gets everyone laughing at game night and makes the best pancakes on Sunday mornings. I know Erik will be an amazing dad—he’s patient, gentle, and brings such joy into the everyday.
Erik about Hannah:
Hannah is compassionate, driven, and full of heart. She puts so much care into the people and things she loves—whether she’s tending to her garden, baking bread from scratch, or supporting a friend through something hard. She’s incredibly smart and passionate, and she brings a lot of creativity and warmth into our life together. I admire how curious she is about the world, how she gives back to her community, and how she always shows up with empathy, resilience, and thoughtfulness. I know she’ll be a loving and supportive mom—someone who will cheer a child on through every high and low, and give them the freedom to grow into exactly who they are.
We met in early 2018 after matching on a dating app, but our connection started with a mutual friend. Hannah recognized Erik’s name and saw that he was connected to someone she trusted. After getting the thumbs up, we started chatting and quickly hit it off. Our shared backgrounds as engineers gave us plenty to “nerd out” about, but it was our sense of humor and easy conversations that really sealed the deal.
For our first date, we grabbed dinner and drinks in Duluth, followed by a walk through the rose garden overlooking Lake Superior. Erik was nervous (though Hannah couldn’t tell!) and instantly noticed Hannah’s laugh, smile, and intelligence. Hannah was impressed by how thoughtful and well-dressed Erik was, and felt completely at ease from the start.
From there, our relationship grew through weekend adventures, family dinners, holiday traditions, and quiet days spent reading and relaxing at home. We supported each other through life’s highs and lows—including the loss of Erik’s dad—and deepened our partnership along the way. In 2020, after completing a virtual marathon, Erik proposed on the side of a scenic highway, completely surprising Hannah. We were married the following fall, surrounded by family, friends, and peak autumn colors.
Our love story has always been grounded in mutual respect, curiosity, and a deep sense of partnership—and we’re so excited to grow our family with those same values at heart.
Always be kind to yourself and to others. Life will bring challenges, but it will also bring beauty, connection, and joy. You don’t need to have all the answers or be perfect. What matters is that you stay true to who you are, ask questions, and treat people with empathy and respect.
Your story is important. Every part of it—including the people who loved you before we did—is worth honoring. We promise to talk openly about adoption and hold space for your questions, your feelings, and your identity. You deserve to know your roots and to feel proud of the journey that brought you to us.
You are deeply loved—not for what you do, but simply for who you are. Our hope is that you always feel safe to explore, to dream, to make mistakes, and to grow. And through it all, we will be here—your biggest cheerleaders, your safe place, your family.
We believe that open adoption, when safe and supported, can be a beautiful and healthy way to honor everyone involved—especially the child. We understand that adoption begins with loss, and we approach that truth with deep empathy, respect, and care.
Openness, to us, means building honest, respectful, and flexible relationships. We are open to contact in many forms—updates, photos, letters, visits, or whatever feels right for everyone. We also know that these relationships can evolve. What feels safe and supportive now might look different in the future, and we’re committed to approaching that with intention, respect, and grace.
Most importantly, we want our child to grow up knowing their story and feeling connected to where they come from. We will talk about adoption with love and honesty, and make sure our child knows how much they are loved, not just by us, but by their entire story.
We believe open adoption can offer a child more love, more connection, and a strong foundation of identity—and we are committed to honoring that.