Industrial Engineer (Water and Sanitation) / Psychologist
District of Columbia
Caucasian
Catholic
We, Laura and Greg, are a loving and resilient couple who bring together rich multicultural backgrounds, complementary strengths, and a shared commitment to family, community, and a joyful life.
I, Laura, originally from Spain, grew up in an affectionate family that instilled in me a deep love for literature, cinema, and the arts. I treasure exploring history, mythology, and languages, and I have a passion for travel and discovering the world’s cultures. Psychologist by training, I am empathetic, nurturing, and enthusiastic about creating meaningful connections. I also enjoy running, fitness, fashion, and spending time with friends over good food and conversation.
I, Greg, born in Paris to French and Togolese parents, share Laura’s appreciation for culture and adventure. My upbringing in a multicultural household emphasized discipline, respect, and open-mindedness, which I carry into every aspect of my life. I am an accomplished engineer with a career in international development. I am passionate about science, music, sports, and nature. I enjoy cycling, hiking, and running, as well as immersing myself in books and discovering new places during our travels. My calm and pragmatic approach beautifully complements Laura’s creative and energetic nature, creating a harmonious balance in our partnership.
Currently living in Washington, D.C., we have built a vibrant life filled with shared interests and hobbies. We love exploring the city’s museums, attending cultural events, and trying out new restaurants and cafes. At home, we enjoy watching movies and series together, discussing books, and hosting friends for dinners that reflect our multicultural backgrounds. Our shared passion for traveling has taken us to various parts of the world, and we look forward to continuing these adventures as a family.
Our families, spanning Spain, France, and Togo, are a source of inspiration and support. My family (Laura´s) is known for its warmth and strong connections, while mine (Greg’s) taught me the value of perseverance and diversity. Together, we bring these influences into our home, creating a welcoming and inclusive environment where our future child will feel loved and secure.
Our path to adoption reflects our heartfelt desire to provide a child with a nurturing, stable, and joyful home. Our complementary strengths—Laura’s empathetic and nurturing approach and Greg’s structured and practical mindset—make us uniquely equipped to guide our child through life’s challenges and celebrations. Whether it’s sharing our love of arts and science, going on family runs, exploring new destinations, or simply enjoying quality time at home, we are ready to offer a life filled with love, laughter, and opportunities. We cannot wait to embrace parenthood and welcome a child into our lives.
We have chosen adoption as a heartfelt and joyful way to grow our family, embracing it as an opportunity to share the immense love we have built together with our child. Our journey to parenthood has been one of patience, resilience, and hope. After years of trying to conceive naturally and through in vitro fertilization, we faced the heartbreak of a miscarriage. While these challenges tested us, they also brought us closer, strengthening our bond and reaffirming our shared dream of becoming parents.
Adoption has always held a special place in our hearts. As a psychologist, I have long believed that family is created through love, and that what shapes a child’s future is the care, guidance, and opportunities given. For me, Greg, adoption represents a chance to provide a child with the security, joy, and sense of belonging that every child deserves. Together, we see adoption not as a backup plan, but as a beautiful and meaningful way to create the family we’ve always dreamed of. Our decision to adopt is rooted in our deep desire to share our love and values with a child. We look forward to teaching our child about the world, fostering his/her curiosity, and creating a life filled with laughter, learning, and adventure. We dream of family moments spent reading stories, exploring new places, and passing on our passions for culture, science, and the arts.
Our own multicultural backgrounds and experiences living in diverse communities have prepared us to embrace the unique aspects of adoption. Whether our child shares our heritage or comes from a different background, we are ready to offer him/her a home filled with understanding, celebration of differences, and unconditional love.
Our home is a bright and welcoming apartment in Washington, D.C., thoughtfully chosen to provide a warm and comfortable environment for our family. Nested in a peaceful area near the Potomac River, the apartment boasts beautiful views of the water and surrounding greenery. The home is filled with personal touches that reflect our shared love for culture, travel, and family. From carefully chosen art pieces to shelves lined with books, our space is a testament to our rich multicultural journey and shared values. The neighborhood is tranquil and family-friendly, with abundant outdoor spaces that we enjoy exploring together. Parks, walking paths, and scenic spots along the Potomac provide the perfect backdrop for outdoor activities like running and cycling, and we look forward to enjoying these spaces as a family. While peaceful, our neighborhood is also conveniently located, allowing easy access to the cultural and recreational offerings of Washington, D.C. It is a nurturing and inspiring place for a child to grow, with a balance of natural beauty and urban opportunities.
We have built a vibrant, diverse community in Washington, D.C., reflecting our international experiences and open-minded approach to life. Our social circle includes colleagues, classmates, and their families, creating a warm and inclusive network. Many of our friends also have children, offering shared experiences and support as we prepare for parenthood. Our weekends are often spent enjoying family-friendly activities with close friends. This dynamic community embodies the openness and diversity that we value deeply. With our history of living across three continents, we have cultivated friendships that span cultures and backgrounds, ensuring our future child grows up in an environment rich in acceptance, understanding, and love. We share close, supportive relationships with our extended families, which play an important role in our lives. We both count on numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.
My, Laura’s, family, based in Spain, is warm and tight-knit. I have a brother and a sister, both younger than me. I have a particularly strong bond with my younger sister who has two daughters, and I am the proud godmother to her first one. My parents and extended family have always been there for me, instilling in me the values of love, education, and togetherness. My family gatherings are lively and full of warmth, and I am confident that my future child will be embraced with open arms by all of them.
My, Greg’s, family, is spread across France and Togo. It also provides a foundation of love and support. I have a younger sister. Raised in a multicultural home, I have a deep appreciation for the strength and sacrifices of my parents, who worked hard to provide a better life for my sister and me. My sister, Laura (as well) and I are different in personality, but we share a very strong bond, and I am particularly close to the first of her four sons, of whom I am the proud godfather. My extended family, large and diverse, is welcoming and ready to embrace our child as one of their own.
I, Greg, would describe Laura as kind, empathetic, enthusiastic, engaging, and open. She’s an extroverted, talkative, and sociable person who can easily light up any room. Despite her outgoing nature, she also finds comfort in solitude, often diving into a good book. Laura loves surprises and is adaptable to change, always finding joy and gratitude in the little things. Any moments of sadness are fleeting for her, as she quickly returns to her naturally happy demeanor. Laura has a passion for travel, new experiences, and making friends wherever she goes. In essence, Laura is a vibrant and multifaceted individual who brings energy and positivity to those around her.
I, Laura, would describe Greg as kind, calm, good-natured, pragmatic, disciplined, respectful, smiling, generous and welcoming. He balances a serious, positive, and optimistic outlook with a practical problem-solving approach. Greg is adventurous and loves exploring new places. While he identifies as an extrovert when it comes to simple interactions, he becomes more introspective when dealing with more significant matters. Greg's blend of warmth and enthusiasm makes him a supportive and engaging presence in any setting.
Our journey together began in 2009 in Equatorial Guinea, where our paths crossed while we were working— Laura, as an NGO worker taking care of young children and Greg, in a company building potable water systems in the country. Our meeting was unexpected; a colleague of Laura’s introduced her to Gregory through one of his colleagues, sparking the start of our relationship.
Our friendship quickly grew, and after just four months, we realized our feelings ran deeper. In 2011, when our respective assignment in Equatorial Guinea concluded, we both returned to our home country, Spain and France. Despite the physical distance, our bond remained strong as we committed to a long-distance relationship, frequently traveling to visit one another. We even experimented with living in each other’s countries — respectively in Spain and then in France.
From the beginning, I was drawn to Laura's happiness and adventurous spirit. I admire her energy, talkative nature, and passion for art. I describe her as a dreamer with a passion for life. On the other hand, I was captivated by Greg's smile, positive outlook, and dedication to his work.
Our love story culminated in our marriage on September 4th, 2014, in Spain. Our union marked the beginning of a new chapter in our lives, defined by love, mutual respect, and a shared commitment to each other.
We may not have met you yet, but we already know that the day we do will be the most beautiful day of our lives. Life is a wonderful adventure, a gift given to each of us, where we can choose how to spend our time and what brings us joy. We're so excited to be by your side, supporting you, cheering you on, and helping you find what makes you happiest. We'll walk with you on whatever path you choose, making sure you have everything you need to reach your dreams. Our advice to you is simple: always share your questions, fears, and dreams with us. You'll always find love, support, help, and guidance from us. We're here to make sure you feel safe, loved, and free to be yourself.
We firmly believe that open adoption is in the best interest of the child, as it allows him/her to know as much as possible about his/her biological mother and family. However, we understand that this is a process, and like all relationships, time will tell whether it is in the child's best interest to make it more or less open.
Initially, we envision ourselves in the middle of the openness spectrum. We are open to becoming more open as circumstances permit, always prioritizing the child's needs and well-being. Ideally, we would provide regular updates on the child's progress through specialized platforms. As we grow more comfortable, we are open to arranging in-person meetings, viewing them as opportunities rather than requirements.
We believe that open adoption helps the child understand his/her history and see how we, as adoptive parents, have cherished this aspect of his/her life. Even if birth parents choose not to respond initially, these updates offer them a chance to see and appreciate the child's growth and development. Our ultimate goal is to create an environment where our child feels supported, loved, and empowered to explore his/her identity and understand the complexities of his/her adoption story. When discussing his/her birth parents, we would approach the conversation with honesty, sensitivity, and age-appropriate language. We would emphasize that his/her birth parents made their decision out of love and a desire to provide the best possible life for him/her. We would encourage our child to understand that everyone has their own struggles and to approach these situations with compassion and empathy. Our love for them is unconditional, and his/her birth parents will always hold a special place in our family's story. We believe that preparation and effective communication are key to ensuring the success of an open adoption. By actively addressing any challenges and seeking support when needed, we aim to maintain a positive and healthy relationship with the birth parents for the benefit of the child.
In summary, our perspective on open adoption is that it should be flexible and dynamic, adapting to the needs of the child and the circumstances of the relationships involved. We are committed to creating a supportive, loving environment where our child can feel secure in their identity and know that they are deeply cherished.