College Vice President
New Jersey
Caucasian
Christian
Hi, I’m Hilary! Thank you so much for taking the time to learn about me. While this must be a difficult decision for you, I think your courage, your selflessness, and your love for your child are amazing. Your decision would also be the most generous and transformative gift for someone like me, who has always dreamed of being a mom and devoting my life to a child.
I hope that my words help you get to know me and envision the loving mom I would be to your child. I would love to learn more about you, talk about your hopes and goals for your child, and figure out how you and I can make them come true. If you do choose me, please know that I look forward to being by your side every step of the way, and that I will love your child unconditionally.
My lifelong dream has been to become a mom. From the time I was a little girl, I hoped to adopt a baby. When the time was right for me to become a mom, I decided that I would try to adopt and get pregnant at the same time. Basically, I chose to let the universe tell me which path was the right one for me to become a mom. After a number of failed fertility treatments, it is clear that my dream from the time I was a little girl was the right one – I was always intended to create my family through adoption. I will be so grateful to you if you help this dream come true.
I have lived in the same close-knit New Jersey town since I was seven years old, which means I have family and friends all around. They are an amazing support system and a constant source of joy, love, laughter. Many of my friends live within walking distance of me and nearly all of them have young kids, meaning that your child will be surrounded by friends and honorary aunts and uncles. From Christmas parties in the winter to summer barbecues, there is always something going on. I love to have people over for simple get-togethers, and to hang out on my friends’ porches with their young children when the weather is nice out.
My mom, Bev, is my best friend and will be an every day part of your child’s life if you so generously choose to entrust me! I’m so glad she lives close by in the house I grew up in, which is filled with happy memories of my childhood. She is amazing with children, in a way that is nearly impossible to describe with words but I will try. She allows children to be silly and serious by making them feel heard and smart. She always has your back and encourages all of us – kids and adults included -- to be ourselves and try new things. We talk on the phone every day, get together all the time, and enjoy family vacations together every summer. She is an amazing woman and role model, and a wonderful “Nana” to my niece and nephews (Andrew, Kevin, Sky, and Quinn). I know she’ll be similarly incredible with your child. She’s up for anything, fun, kind, and thoughtful – my friends adore her!
I live within walking distance of town, many of my friends, and the college where I work. My home has a large, fenced-in back yard where I love to play with my sweet dog Henry, have meals on the patio, play guitar, and hang out with friends and family. The family room has sliding doors that lead right to the deck and yard, so we’re constantly enjoying fresh air and sunshine.
My top priority right now is becoming a mom, and being a mom and providing your child with the best life I can possibly give him or her will take precedence over anything else in the future. I’m fortunate to be at a place in my life where I can make that call. I’m an open book, so if you have any questions let me know. I’m happy to share whatever information would help you make your decision. It’s hard for me to describe the depth of what my family means to me, or the level of support they provide. We genuinely love spending time together and we always support each other, no matter what. My entire family is ready and waiting to shower your child with love and welcome him or her to the family.
I hope that my words help you get to know me and envision the loving mom I would be to your child. I would love to learn more about you, talk about your hopes and goals for your child, and figure out how you and I can make them come true. If you do choose me, please know that I look forward to being by your side every step of the way, and that I will love your child unconditionally.