Lawyer / Lawyer
Minnesota
Caucasian
Christian
Hi! We are Tescia & Andrew. We met in law school in 2013 and were married in October, 2016. We live in a western suburb of Minneapolis. We’re blessed to live in a school district that is ranked the best in the state. We both work as lawyers, can work remotely, and Tescia has a flexible work schedule.
We have two beautiful children who are the best things to ever happen to us. We love picking the kids up from school early and taking them on a “Mom date” or “Dad date” or simply bringing them home to play. They both attend a small and diverse Montessori school owned by a pair of Iranian women. Our children are kind, intelligent, happy, joyful humans and we’re blessed to be their parents.
Andrew enjoys dating his wife, riding his bike, listening to audio books, playing with the kids, and trying new restaurants. Tescia loves being with her family, walking with friends, reading, planning kids activities, and photography. As a family we love walking to the park, play dates with friends from school, church, or the neighborhood, and spending time outside.
Adoption has been on Tescia’s heart for as long as she can remember. Adoption was discussed during the conversation Andrew and Tescia had prior to deciding to date. Andrew was in full support and at that time the couple decided to have two biological children and adopt two children. Andrew and Tescia seek to provide a warm, loving, supportive home that encourages all their children to reach their full potential. All our children will be treated equally, yet individually.
We live in a 6 bedroom home that has a large backyard. Our house is situated on a small circle, thus children run from yard to yard and the adults can often be found chatting. Our neighborhood is diverse, welcoming, and close to the elementary and high school. Our community includes a close knit church group (Tescia and Andrew are co-leaders of the group), diverse Montessori School community (Tescia often plans class play dates and school fundraisers), and a very supportive extended family.
Andrew is one of the most patient, kind, rational, respectful, motivated, and caring people I know! He excels at everything he does, yet is incredibly humble. He’s athletic, intelligent, and has the biggest heart. He is often looking for ways to help people or remove barriers. He’s gentle-hearted yet incredibly strong, disciplined, and principled. He’s loyal and dedicated to those he loves. He balances family life and career flawlessly. He’s a very hands-on dad who loves playing with the kids. Our children often ask him to play “bear” or other game that involves them tackling him to the ground. Their giggles of delight when playing these games can be heard throughout the house. Andrew works hard to contribute equally to the household by doing laundry, cooking, or cleaning. He’s involved in every aspect of the kids’ lives and truly is the best dad. I had an absentee father, so I was incredibly diligent in selecting a spouse because I knew they would be the future father of my children. I hit the jackpot. I wish every child had a dad like Andrew.
Tescia is inspirational to everyone she meets. She is naturally kind and it is easily apparent to every person she comes across. She is a leader, naturally slipping into the role no matter if it is at work, in our church group, or developing relationships with our children’s friends. She’s one of the smartest people I know as demonstrated by her successful career, but she also is a driving force and a leader in our family. She is so warm, welcoming, and trustworthy that random children will frequently find her and trust her to take care of them until their parents arrive. She is fiercely loyal, particularly when her family is involved and will always have her husband’s and children’s backs. She has the most generous spirit of anyone I’ve ever met. Whether it’s donations through church, donations to children in war-torn countries, donated backpacks with school supplies, organizing meal-trains for mothers who have just given birth, fundraisers for our childrens’ school, or a meal and a listening ear to a friend who has had a miscarriage, is sleep deprived with young children, or going through a rough patch with their partner, there is no limit to what she will do for those she loves. She is also the most resilient person I’ve ever met. She grew up without much and was thrust into a role taking care of her two younger siblings as a young teenager. Rather than using her circumstances as an excuse, she rose to the challenge. She put herself through college and law school with honors while working multiple jobs along the way. I truly wish everyone could have a mother and wife like Tescia.
Andrew and Tescia met in law school in 2013. We became best friends almost immediately upon meeting each other. There was a mutual trust, respect, and openness that we both felt. After being friends for a few months, we decided to start dating. Prior to deciding whether dating made sense, we had a multiple hour long conversation outlining what each one of us wanted out of life. We talked about our views on children, finances, debt, religion, hobbies, career aspirations, and family values. This was intended to ensure we were heading in the same direction. We’ve been together ever since and have a healthy, thriving marriage and family.
We hope you feel the love that surrounds you, always find the joy in situations, and live a life of gratitude. Looking for and finding the positives in life often is the happier path. We pray you stay motivated, resilient, and determined. You can beat a majority of the population just by showing up. Additionally, no one can take things from you that you earn yourself. Stay true to your own path. There are lots of voices that will attempt to influence you, but only you know your truth.
Grandpa will tell you winners never quit and quitters never win.
Stay resilient and hold on to your optimism as long as you can.
Believe in the best of people as much as you can and trust that most people are good.
Surround yourself with good friends. You will be the average of your five closest friends, so pick good ones.
If it doesn’t feel right don’t do it.
Don’t feel like you have to be someone else to fit in. Trust that you can be your genuine self and people will love and accept you.
If you’re the smartest person in the room, find a different room. Always be teachable and willing to learn. You will never reach a point where you can’t learn something new.
One of the most important choices you will make in life that will determine your potential and long term success is choosing a partner. Choose wisely.
Be like your Mom and choose to marry someone like your Mom.
Assuming everyone is healthy, and a relationship is in the best interest of the child, we’re very open to cultivating a loving relationship with a birth family. We believe the more love a child receives the better and there’s nothing like a connection between a mother and child. Having a positive relationship with birth families will also hopefully help the adopted child know their history and culture. Knowing where you come from is important to any human.