Nurse Practitioner- dual certification- Adult Geriatric and Mental Health / Middle/High School History Teacher
New York
Caucasian
None
Hello! We are a light-hearted, compassionate, adventurous, and curious family of seven. We have adopted four times. Twice we adopted from foster care, and then we matched with a wonderful expectant mother, or “Tummy Mommy” as our kids say, and we adopted our fourth child. We thought we were a complete family, but we were wrong. She called us again two years later and we adopted a second baby, our sweet little guy! So, we were done, right? Nope. She called us again earlier this year and we were thrilled to be asked to adopt one last time from her. We completed our home study, prepared the new baby’s room, and all of our children were SO excited to welcome a new sibling, but their hearts were broken when we lost that baby. We all talked about it and everyone here still wants to adopt again and we are hoping we will match before our home study expires in June 2025. There are five tiny hearts and two huge ones that are hoping that we will still be able to welcome one last baby to our home. We are very much open to special needs and we are experienced in advocating for the needs of our children. We are comfortable with medical needs and substance exposure. Our son , Thomas, is black and is desperately hoping for a sister (or brother) who “looks like me”. We understand how important it would be for him to have a sibling of color so that they can share that bond.
We are hoping to match with someone who is willing to answer questions about themself down the road as we are completely open and honest with our children about their first families. We consider their “Tummy Mommies” and other family members our own family, and it just keeps growing! We would love to welcome not only your baby, but also you to our extended family if you are comfortable with that. We also are respectful of boundaries, so if you are not comfortable with that, we understand.
We have one biological child, but we both have always wished to adopt. We love the relationships we have grown and the experiences we have had by adopting. We wouldn’t change a thing about any of our adoptions.
We live in a historic farm house on three acres. It feels like we are in the country but we are only a mile or so from our downtown. We live in an amazing, supportive, close-knit community that reminds you of Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood because kids here are still innocent and they get to be kids for longer than they might in other places. They ride bikes, play together, and celebrate all the festivals and holidays together downtown with all of their friends from school. Everyone knows everyone and it means we watch out for each other and make sure everyone is always safe. We have a Christmas parade and festival in the winter with tree lighting, spectacular Fourth of July events, weekly concerts in the park downtown all summer, a Farmer’s Market every Thursday, and, as the kids will tell you, we have the best Halloween festivities in the country! We also have phenomenal schools where Emily has worked as a middle school teacher. Colleen grew up in this town and was elated to find that a childhood here is just as magical as it was for her.
We have a wise, gentle, golden retriever who is like a third parent. We also have cats who are always up for some mischief with the kids.
Emily, or Mama to those closest to her, is profoundly genuine, exceptionally compassionate, and endlessly understanding. I think this is due to the millions of books she has read as they have helped her develop empathy and the ability to see the good and support the struggles of every person she encounters. She is so very respectful of her students and is the most passionate teacher I have ever witnessed. She accepts every student and encourages them all, and by the end of the year has reasons to love each of them. She parents the same way. She has helped our children process their feelings and emotions in constructive ways because, just like her students, she respects them.
I love that she loves learning and, as a history teacher, she has a special love for our past and our country. I saw her eyes glistening with tears at Disney’s Hall of Presidents show. That’s the type of subtle passionate greatness that I love most about her. She has an incredible sense of humor, and is always willing to laugh with me about all of the amusing things our kids do. This is why parenting with her is a joy instead of a chore.
Colleen is the heart of our family. She creates magic for the kids everyday. She has had the honor of producing the first and biggest belly laughs from each of our kids and is the absolute best when it comes to kissing booboos and creating blanket forts to alleviate stress during a thunderstorm. She can explain the most difficult topics from the loss of a pet to losing baby teeth with honesty, simplicity, and grace. Colleen is the ultimate cheerleader, encouraging our kids to be adventurous and to be excited about learning, exploring, trying new things, and meeting new people. She has taught our children to love the “unlovable” creatures like spiders, toads, and snakes which allows our kids to have tremendous respect for all life. Because of her, we have confident, capable children who are willing to try anything and make mistakes. She knows instinctively when to push a child and when to allow them to take their time when learning a new skill. She is their biggest advocate and fierce protector.
Life is an amazing adventure that is best enjoyed with the people who love you! No learning is ever wasted. Your siblings will have your back no matter what, and they cannot wait to share the joy and magic of holidays, special occasions, and those tiny moments of magic in everyday life. Life here is vibrant and full of happy noise, so get ready! You will never be bored or lonely in this house.
We can’t wait to meet you and see the new hopes, dreams, and perspectives you bring to the family. We can’t wait to meet your first family either. It has taken so much love for them to bring you into the world and it will only grow as we get to know you and share you with the world.
We love how our world and family has grown since we began our adoption journey. We are hoping to be as open as the birth family is comfortable with but are also respectful of boundaries if they wish for less involvement. We do talk openly with our children about their Tummy Mommies, the wonderful traits we see in them that come through in the children, and all of the love it took for them to choose to make an adoption plan. We feel open adoption, honesty with everyone (especially the children), and communication is the healthiest for all involved. We are not judgemental and are understanding of the challenges of addiction. We will always emotionally support our Tummy Mommies whenever possible if they are struggling in any way.