Welcome! Meet:

Joe + Emily

Math Teacher / School Counselor

New York

Caucasian

Christian

All About Joe & Emily

Hi, we are Emily and Joe!

We can only imagine the overwhelming mix of emotions you are going through at this time. Please know that if you choose to make an adoption plan with us, we promise that your child will experience a life full of love, adventure and never ending support. In addition to that, they will always know that you are their birth mother and that your decision was made out of a selfless act of pure love for them. 

In 2018 we welcomed our son, Miles into the world and he has brought us so much joy. We’ve tried to conceive a second child but after many failed fertility treatments, we chose to close that chapter. Despite closing that chapter, our desire to love and care for another child is something that is imprinted deep inside of our hearts. We would be so happy to expand our family through adoption and we are so happy that you are considering us.

We hope that as you get to know us through these pages, you will feel in your heart just how much your baby will be loved in our family, unconditionally. We are available to answer any questions you may have and we hope to start to form a relationship with you that you are comfortable with.

Thank you so much for considering us to join you on this journey.

Emily and Joe

Why Adoption?

We love nothing more than being parents. We always knew we wanted to have multiple children but we didn’t realize that after having Miles, our journey to have a second biological child would be extremely difficult. The infertility experience was painful but it brought us closer than before and it has led us to the path of adoption which we truly feel is where we are meant to be. We have so much love in our hearts to give and would love to expand our family through adoption. Miles also cannot wait to be a big brother.

Family & Home

We live in a suburb about an hour and 15 minutes north of New York City, nestled in the mountains of the Hudson Valley right along the Hudson River. Our town is so special to me (Emily) because it's where I was raised. In fact, we live on the same street that I grew up on, just one house away from my parents. We walk up the street for family dinners with my parents or just to pop in and borrow an ingredient I may have forgotten for dinner! Many of our neighbors have known me since I was just a kid. My brother and his husband live just 5 minutes away from us. Miles’ school is close enough to our home that when he’s old enough, he can walk or ride his bike there. We have a very big support system surrounding us and I can't say enough good things about our community.

A typical weekend usually includes walking to the playground and then going across the street to get ice cream where the owner knows almost every kid's order. Every Tuesday evening in the summer there are concerts at the community bandstand where people dance and chat and kids run around to burn off some energy in the summer air. It was a great place to grow up and still is an amazing place to raise a family.

How others describe me

Written by Emily: Joe is the friend who is always planning fun trips and events. He has a gift for bringing people together and making sure that everyone has a great time. Joe plans a Christmas party every year called “Christmas Jam,” where he and his musically inclined friends play Christmas music live in our living room. He invites all of our friends to listen to the music, eat good food and enjoy each other’s company. It is a gathering that so many people look forward to each holiday season. This past year, Miles was able to join for the first time and even got on the microphone playing the harmonica! Joe just wants people to be happy and have fun. This character trait also happens to make him the most fun and caring dad in the world. He is always taking Miles to do fun things whether it is bowling, swimming, hiking or fishing. The two of them always come home with fun stories about their adventures together. 

In addition to being an amazing husband and father, Joe is also a dedicated teacher. He teaches high school math in an inner-city school. He makes connections with each of his students and encourages them to try their best and be their best selves. He has taken me and Miles to sporting events and drama club performances that his students are in–cheering them on even outside of the classroom. 

Joe puts 100 percent into everything he does and this passion is clear in his desire to expand our family through adoption. I promise that your child would always feel safe, loved and special with Joe as their dad.

Written by Joe: Emily is the heart and soul of our family. From the moment we met, she captivated me with her kindness, compassion, and infectious humor. Beyond that initial impression, her deep love for family stood out. She constantly thinks of ways to bring family together--inviting her parents over for a weeknight dinner or suggesting a quick weekend trip upstate to see our niece and nephew. Emily has an ability to turn ordinary moments into unforgettable adventures, always bringing joy and fun to our lives. 

Whether she is cheering Miles on at soccer or surprising him in class with a story, Emily’s love shines through in everything she does. I feel incredibly fortunate to have her as my partner. 

In addition to being an incredible wife and mom, Emily is a Middle School Counselor. In her role, she makes a profound impact on students navigating the hardest years of adolescence. 

When you ask Miles what he loves most about having Emily as his mom, his eyes light up as he says he “loves everything about her” – from the nightly stories before bed to the morning cuddles that kick off our days. He often tells me how “happy he is that we are a family”. Emily is already an amazing mom, and I have no doubt she will be an incredible mother of two.

how we met

How We Met

We met in college in 2009. Emily was drawn to Joe’s outgoing personality and his sense of humor. Joe was drawn to Emily’s kindness and similar sense of humor. We were friends for a few months before we realized our feelings were deeper for each other. We bonded over long conversations at the dining hall (how romantic!) We started dating and moved in together a couple of years after that. We rescued our amazing dog Levon together. On an unseasonably mild day in December of 2014, Joe proposed at the Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree in NYC in front of a crowd of people. Emily, of course, said, “Yes!” and the rest is history. We married in July of 2016. We bought our home in 2017 and welcomed our son Miles into the world in September of 2018.

Advice to Future Child

Dear future child,

Our advice to you is to always treat others with kindness. Tell the truth, even if it’s hard. Try your best in everything you do. Stand up for others if you see something that isn’t right. Always remember that you can talk to us about anything.

Perspectives on Open Adoption

We are very supportive of an open adoption. We both feel like it’s in the best interest of the child to have as much love and support in their lives as possible; both from their adoptive family and from their biological family. We would make clear to our child that their birth mom made the decision to make an adoption plan because of her deep love for them. We hope that our child would always feel comfortable talking openly with us about their birth family and their story. We would encourage open lines of communication with their birth family.

Favorites

Joe
  • Favorite Movie: Stepbrothers
  • Favorite Holiday/Tradition: Christmas. Favorite tradition is cutting down a Christmas tree and Christmas Jam.
  • Hobbies/Interests: guitar, piano, hiking, exercising
  • Dream Vacation: Greece
  • If I Could Choose a Superpower: flying
Emily
  • Favorite Movie: Father of the Bride, You’ve Got Mail
  • Favorite Holiday/Tradition: My favorite holiday is Christmas and favorite tradition is our annual party, Christmas Jam.
  • Hobbies/Interests: cooking, going on hikes, spending time with family, watching movies
  • Dream Vacation: I would love to go to Italy one day.
  • If I Could Choose a Superpower: I think time travel would be very cool.

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