Assistant Director of Career Readiness Services / Assistant Director of Admissions and Outreach
Caucasian / African American
Hello! We’re Candice and Ryan and we live in a suburb of the Twin Cities in Minnesota. We enjoy time at home working on our hobbies or doing projects around the house. When it’s nice outside, we like finding new places to take walks and working in our garden. We love adventures and traveling, and we also like cozy nights in with board games or Netflix.
For the past year, we've been completing trainings, filling out paperwork, and doing a lot of research about bringing a child into our family. We’ve talked about adopting even before we got married, and are excited to now be home study approved and ready for placement. We’ve done a lot of work on our house to make sure it's ready for our growing family.
We want to adopt to give a child a safe, loving, and supportive home. Candice has always wanted to adopt children, due to the comparatively worse maternal healthcare outcomes for black women. For Ryan, adoption is something he has always wanted to do. We can’t wait to be parents! We both have always wanted to grow our family and share our adventures with an amazing kiddo.
We live in the northwest suburbs of the Twin Cities in Minnesota. We moved into our home in 2021. When looking for a house, it was important to us that the home have multiple bedrooms all on the same level, have a big backyard for children to play, and be in a diverse area. Our neighborhood is very quiet, yet still close to Minneapolis and St. Paul and all they have to offer. We are close to many parks, lakes, trails, museums, a community center, libraries, and other fun places to take children. There is a big garden in our backyard where every year we plant a variety of vegetables. We worked really hard to find a perfect home to start our family and hope we can welcome a child here soon.
Candice grew up in a suburb of the Twin Cities with her mother and has two half brothers, as well as three nieces and two nephews. Candice is close with her family and loves taking her nieces and nephews on fun adventures.
Ryan grew up in St. Cloud, MN and has a brother and a sister, as well as two nieces and four nephews. He is close with his family and often spends time with his brother who lives nearby.
Candice is caring, compassionate, loyal, and quick to laugh. Although she enjoys many crafts like knitting, crocheting, and sewing, her latest obsession is making polymer clay jewelry. She has even started her own business and sells her items at local craft fairs. Candice also enjoys being outdoors and loves animals. She has a big heart and is always cheering others on.
Ryan is patient, kind, funny, and smart. He enjoys Star Wars, board games, and his latest obsession is painting miniatures. He is also into sports such as hockey and football. Ryan never misses a St. Cloud State University hockey game. You can also find him watching the Vikings every Sunday. He is a great partner, a kind soul, and a calming presence.
We met in 2016 when we both worked at the same community college. We got to know each other when we worked on a team project together. After a few random run-ins in our neighborhood park (turns out we lived less than a mile from each other), Candice took a liking to Ryan and after many nervous conversations with friends, decided to ask him out. It took a few dates for Ryan to warm up, but we pretty quickly clicked and learned that we are both laid back people who enjoy similar things such as board games, crafts, and plants.
We have many values we'd like to share with a child, including kindness, compassion, responsibility, respect, and honesty. We also highly value education. We both have worked in higher education for over ten years and believe education is very important. We also believe children should forge their own path and therefore we will encourage our child to pursue their own interests. We will embrace and support our child in exploring their identity. Our advice to our future child is to love yourself and know that we are always here for help, love, and support.
We are supportive of an open adoption that would allow us to have a lifelong relationship with the birth parent(s), and more importantly, allow our child to have that with her/them as well. We would love to have a discussion about what all of us would be comfortable with. At a minimum, we would love for our child to know their adoption story, history, and heritage. This may be in the form of sharing stories or pictures, having conversations throughout the year, or even visits. Whatever plan we all decide on, the birth mother will always be respected in our home.